I wanted to share about my list of priorities that I now have stuck up on my computer monitor. I realized one day that I really needed a list in a place that I would see them often and be reminded of their importance.
My life as a wife
and mother tended to be one distracting
adventure after the other. Often I would get to a point of feeling so
overwhelmed and I would look for ways of doing things that would take
some of the burden and stress out of my life. Usually I would read a
book or talk to friends or watch
a show on a topic that would give me
the tips I would need for more efficient and stress free living. The
problem is that there are a million books, a TV show on every channel
and a lot of the time my friends advice would conflict with another
friends advice. All of those things were taking up so much of my time
and leaving me feeling even more overwhelmed and stressed.
Don't
get me
wrong, I value each of those sources of knowledge and absolutely
appreciate the wisdom of a woman with experience. I learn so much from
other women that I respect and admire. I think it only becomes a
problem when we begin to idolize that advice. We can be ever seeking
the wisdom and forget to seek the wisdom giver. We begin to spin in
circles and get so distracted with trying to find the answers that we
miss the point of having questions to begin with. God created us
without all of the answers because He wants us to seek Him. He
wants us
to realize our need for Him and His hand in our daily lives.
As I began to allow God to be the one I went to first for the answers to my questions He spoke to me very clearly about priorities. I have so many things that creep into my day and demand my attention but what are the priorities? These are the things that, in spite of everything else, I desire to be very intentional about and God has put it on my heart to make sure that I make time for them above everything else.
As I began to allow God to be the one I went to first for the answers to my questions He spoke to me very clearly about priorities. I have so many things that creep into my day and demand my attention but what are the priorities? These are the things that, in spite of everything else, I desire to be very intentional about and God has put it on my heart to make sure that I make time for them above everything else.
My
list is
very simple. It is 5 things and that is it. Simplicity equals freedom
for me. It is like a weight lifted off of me. It means that every day I
am working towards the goals I have and the calling that has been given
to me. All of the other things can pile up but these things matter for
eternity.
When I didn't have
this list the less important things
tended to rule my days. It has been absolutely amazing that when I
focus on this list of priorities I somehow seem to get so much more done
in a day. I also don't seem to get stressed as much about getting it
all done. I am confident that God's to do list for me is far more
important than my own and if His list for me is this simple then I can
rest in knowing that I am walking obedience and His yoke really is easy
and His burden really is light (Matthew 11:30).

Kristin, I so needed to hear this this week. It's been a crazy week and the end result was me realizing that I am not ordered in my priorities. I've dialogued with God a lot about it and this was the same conclusion I had--so thank you for your post because it is the confirmation I needed to stay on track that my decisions were the right ones!!!!
ReplyDeleteEnjoyed the above post Kristin and nice to "meet" you fellow MOPS mommy! Where do you attend MOPS?
ReplyDeleteThank you and nice to "meet" you too! I attend MOPS in Irving, Texas. How about you?
ReplyDeleteI can really appreciate and relate to your post! Although, I may have missed the 5 simple priorities...what are they? Thnx.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I actually didn't write specifically about my 5 priorities. Mainly because I know they can be different for everyone and I believe that God gave me my 5 specifically for me. I don't want anyone else to feel like they have to follow mine. Make sense? I just sat down and prayed about it and asked God to show me what are the most important things that I needed to be focusing on and He did. I am confident He will do the same thing for anyone else who asks.
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